Better Steer Clear
So you're into your friend's girlfriend. What do you do? Do you try to steal her away from your friend and be "that guy" or do you keep those feelings to yourself and remain friends with both of them.
To be honest, I would go with the second option. If this is one of your good friends, then don't stab him in the back. What kind of friend steals his girl? If their relationship is going strong then leave it alone. It is better to remain a friend to both of them then taking the risk of loosing the two. You should be happy for your friend even if you really want his girl. You might have to suck it up and be a man.
If you do try to take his girl you will definitely lose trust and possibly a friendship with one of your good pals. And then how long will your relationship last with the girl? The two of them probably won't want to be in the same room as each other, so now you have to make time for both. The girl might even leave you for another man, maybe one of your friends.
Girls can come and go but a good friend will always be there, don't ruin that relationship. Treat people like you would want to be treated.
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